I HAVE BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD

I HAVE BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD



HAVE YOU EVER BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD ??? 


YES, ALWAYS AS THERE IS NO ALTERNATIVE TOO.



WHEN DO YOU COME TO KNOW ABOUT HAPPENING OF MISUNDERSTANDING ?


THIS IS NOT A SUDDEN PHENOMENON BUT RECOGNISED/REALISED SUDDENLY.

THE SEED OF MISUNDERSTANDING GETS SOWN UNKNOWINGLY FROM THE MOMENT YOU COME IN THE CONTACT WITH THE PERSON CONCERNED.

BUT SPROUTING AND FLUTING TAKE TIME.

YOU COME TO KNOW/RECOGNISE/REALISE ONLY WHEN MISUNDERSTANDING CROSSES THE THRESHOLD LIMIT FROM THE SUDDEN OUTBURST FROM THE PERSON CONCERNED.



CAN IT BE AVOIDED ??

PERHAPS YES.


HOW ??



IF THE PERSON CONCERNED FEELS EVEN SLIGHTEST PINCH/HURT DUE TO YOUR WORDS (AS THEY ARE VERY POOR COMMUNICATOR OF MEANING/MESSAGE) OR ACTIONS,

HE/SHE SHOULD IMMEDIATELY EXPRESS TO YOU.

AND AT THAT POINT OF TIME ITSELF THAT MATTER CAN BE RESOLVED VERY EASILY (EVEN MATTER MIGHT GET FINISHED AUTOMATICALLY) AS THE SEED OF MISUNDERSTANDING WILL NOT GET NOURISHMENT FOR FURTHER GROWTH AND YOU WILL HAVE THE STRONG UNBREAKABLE BONDING WITH HIM/HER.



BUT WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN ??


BECAUSE "PERHAPS YOU ARE BEYOND UNDERSTANDING".



NORMALLY NO ONE TRIES TO UNDERSTAND YOU IN NORMAL COURSE CONSCIOUSLY BUT STILL MISUNDERSTANDING HAPPENS.

WHEN SOMEBODY TRIES TO UNDERSTAND YOU CONSCIOUSLY AND IF THE MISUNDERSTANDING HAPPENS THEN IT MAKES SENSE.

BUT DOES IT NOT LOOK AWKWARD THAT WITHOUT EVEN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND CONSCIOUSLY BY OTHER FELLOW, YOU ARE MISUNDERSTOOD ???


BUT WHAT IS MISUNDERSTANDING ?


IN MY OPINION

"WHEN THE NATURAL CONNECTIVITY WITH OTHERS (EVERYTHING IS CONNECTED WITH ALL OTHER THINGS OR LIFE FORMS)

COMES TO THE SURFACE

OR

GETS REVEALED

TO SUCH AN EXTENT THAT THE EXISTENCE OF ILLUSORY EGO (PERSONALITY / INDIVIDUALITY) IS FELT QUESTIONABLE

AND

THIS RESULTS INTO A SENSE/FEELING OF MISUNDERSTANDING.


[ HERE THE WORD YOU INCLUDES EVERYONE ]



WHAT DO YOU SAY ?????????????????



[ I HAVE BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD BY ONE OF MY FB FRIENDS RECENTLY.

THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME I HAVE BEEN MISUNDERSTOOD.

THE REVERSE MAY ALSO BE TRUE i.e. MISUNDERSTANDING MAY BE ON MY PART.

BUT THIS RECENT ONE LED ME TO ANALYSE "WHY" THIS HAPPENS. ]


I HAVE BEEN FINDING MYSELF MISUNDERSTOOD BY MY MANY REAL LIFE FRIENDS FROM A LONG TIME AND BY FB FRIENDS FROM LAST ONE YEAR WHEN I STARTED FB JOURNEY.

THIS MISUNDERSTANDING LED TO UN-FRIENDING, BLOCKING, GETTING DELETED FROM THE GROUPS ETC.

I THINK MOST OF YOU HAVE ALSO GONE THROUGH THIS ORDEAL.


ON THIS WHOLE DRAMA I CAN DO NOTHING BUT LAUGH.............................

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